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My husband is on Generic Viagra: from the other side of the story

How it all started

I and my husband have been together for almost three decades.

We are happily married couple, with two beautiful children. We had never had any issues in our relationships, as we fell in love at the very early age, and have managed to keep a fire burning. We also have had steady jobs, our house in Melbourne and all-in-all we are happy with our lives. The sexual side of our relationship had always been fascinating for both of us. We never could get enough of each other. This had been interrupted for the time I conceived our first baby and then the second. All-in-all, I should say, our sexual life haven’t changed much after the birth of each of the children.

Usually we got three intercourses or so during the week, and on the weekends, I can’t really count them, ha!

Then my husband started to get doses of increased stress with his new position in a media outlet. This has never been easy for him, his job is a stressful one by nature, but as he got higher in the hierarchy, he got to work longer hours and got to be more committed.

Erectile dysfunction diagnosis

At least that is what he blames on for his absence of an erection. Trust me, I watched him. He was simply desperate, and I am sure, we both faithful and all, there had not been any other woman involved. A pure stress thing. We have had our family consultant, whom we sort of grew to dislike, as he was not adding up anything to our situation.

My husbands’ urologist, on the other hand, is a very practical man, unlike the regular family doctor. After a series of visits we both conducted to a urologist, we determined that the problem with erectile dysfunction which capsized our life to a great extent and made joys of being together greatly diminished, was not with a lack of desire, but simply and plainly with levels of stress.

It is definitely the job pressures that had done us such harm.

Overall that lasted for around a year. It did not happen at once, as at the beginning we still had good sex may be once in a week, it lasted a short time though, but we attributed that to our age.

Then it has disappeared completely, an erection I mean. I tried to comfort my husband and repeated that it is ok, I am still in love with him, and we can deliver all sorts of pleasures to each other in a number of different ways. But it didn’t work out that smoothly, As my husband, in addition to gradually becoming impotent started to get sort of panic and anxiety attacks, something that our family doctor described as a panic cycle. The heart of the matter lied in the absence of satisfactory sexual part of our relationship.

Before these consultations, I never knew that there are the types of erectile dysfunction where the partners stop having the desire to have the sexual relationship, and this is fatal, as there is no medication that can treat a lack of desire per se.

It is important that a female partner participated in a decision as well

Our urologists said that we actually better decide on the type of the treatment together, as women are entitled to be aware of the changes the pills for erectile dysfunction treatment face.

He said that there are many cases when men made the decision on the treatment alone, without consulting their partners, and that it brought irrevocable changes to a relationship.

If you are a single man, that’s another story, but if you are trying to enhance your sexual performance with an already firmly established partner, then I think you both should decide on the type of the treatment.

I am very much involved in women’s right things, and I know from a lot of my female friends that they are not welcoming the use of any pills in the relationships.

I think this is great that with the advent of the internet, all the publications on erectile dysfunctions appeared and drew attention as far as relationships between the couple that chose to treat ED with pills like Viagra. That especially concerns couples where one of the partners is 45+ of age. Many negative stereotypes have been challenged and I think now our Canadian society accepts couples that take pills as a treatment and improved the overall image of older people having sex.

Our first try of a pill

On the suggestion of my husband, we ordered some basic package of Viagra. The first time he tried, he took 25mg pill. We waited around 45 minutes, and…nothing was going on. His doctor told us that sometimes these pills do not work when tried for the first time, but usually they start to show effects after one or two consequent takings. We discussed that just in order to get some relief in discussing the matter, while suddenly my husband said, look here, and smiled. It was his first erection in almost a year. And it was fascinating. We really could not get enough of it. He performed in bed like he was 25 years younger his age.

We made the most passionate love in our lifetime and had several orgasms each. I think the pill lasted for around three hours straight, even though the dosage was minimal.

Next morning an erection returned, and we had sex again.

What to choose between Viagra, Cialis, and Levitra?

As we tried all three of the trending medications to treat ED: Viagra, Cialis, and Levitra, I can definitely say what is good for us. However, it surely does not have to affect your own personal decision about what pill to choose. I’d recommend try and error approach.

We tried Cialis as well. It is as good as Viagra but it takes time before it gets absorbed and starts to work.

They say Cialis lasts longer, but we didn’t notice that. What we noticed is that a Cialis pill allows an erection lasting for like four hours or even more, and it is much more than we need.

With a Levitra pill, we were not that lucky, as it was the one that didn’t work the first time. As our online seller sold it with a reduced price, we bought several, and only the third pill started to work. Besides, it gave my husband a slight headache, which was quick-passing, but sort of annoying when you expect to have a good time, you know.

So we narrowed our choice on generic Viagra and we are happy about it. With a Generic Viagra pill, we really do not need more than one 25 milligram dosage per night.

The consequences of taking the pills

Another reason why we stopped trying Cialis is because I felt guilty and uncomfortable. An erection lasted sometimes as long as an hour and my husband got to be a real animal in bed. Honestly, that was too much. It is annoying for a man to get a hard-on while your partner has been satisfied and nearly dropped dead. Remember that scene in movie “The Fly,” where a guy got some chemical changes in him, that made him insatiable. And his partner got totally exhausted and did not know what to do.

I am aware, though that for some women is may be an issue when men have such a strong performance when on pills while women have to be left to their own devices. The complications may be deeper for those families when a man is dominant and wouldn’t hear his wife or partner while enjoying himself.

Generic Viagra – a game changer, money-wise

Finally, when we tried all sorts of generic Cialis, Viagra, Levitra, and some others, we stuck to generic Viagra, as manufacturers of Viagra offer a wider arrangement of dosages, and the duration of the pill is more controlled. If you are a younger couple, generic Cialis might work the best for you.

Another factor that in the pharmacy we shop online, which is My Canadian Pharmacy, a chance to get the reduction in price for generic Viagra is greater compared to other pills, as generic Viagra is of high diversity and comes from many manufacturers.

Where we usually purchase our generic Viagra

I also wanted to review several pharmacies that trade the pills online. As I was an active participant together with my husband during all stages of purchasing the pills for him. Starting from choosing the dosage, consulting the pharmacy regarding the reliability and the costs, obtaining customer support, etc. We face a lot of issues with all sorts of things.

You always read on the Internet how bad and unreliable online third party pharmacies are. It is partly true, and I do not want even mentioned those pharmacies that let us down. Luckily the choice is great in Canada, you can choose among a bigger amount of good traders than in the United States, for example.

The reason good ones never mentioned in the reviews is obvious. The satisfied customers are what they are- satisfied, the angry ones go on debates, complaints and sometimes slander.

I read all sorts of reviews on our chosen pharmacy, My Canadian Pharmacy as well. People complained mostly about delivery issues.

I was more concerned with fraud issues than with delivery one. I know it can be hard with our Canadian customs, especially with the products are shipped from India, so I guess one needs to be patient.

We had a couple of delays with My Canadian, too. However, the guys always have been sending us emails saying that the product might be delivered one day later and that they apologize.

Another thing that makes My Canadian Pharmacy stand out is the individual approach as far as deals are concerned. Before even making our first purchase, I think it was Levitra back then, during our online chat with a guy from the support team of My Canadian Pharmacy, they offered us a great individual deal after they learned what our situation is. They also said that if we are in doubt they can offer help of their professional urologist, for free. That we did not need, as were at the stage when we sort of knew what we wanted, but needed to narrow our choices to buy the pills in large chunks, in order to save some money.